Sunday, 12 May 2013

It's Mother's Day...

Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers!

The things my mother taught me...


Always wear clean underwear, hehe, to be tolerant of others, patients is a virtue, have a open mind and an open heart, flexibility is key to everything, don't put all your eggs in one basket, or was that chicken's and if they don't like it who gives a damn!

What my Nanna has taught me...


Stick to your guns, be generous in all aspects of your life, stay strong, don't let anyone tell you it's over until your dead and don't let the bastards get you down!


My lovely mum, Dianne and my wonderful Nanna Janet.

This is what my Sista has taught me...

Say it how it is, don't give up or give in, do what you love to do, family and friends are essential and are to be treasured and valued, love is unconditional, who care's what other people think!


My awesome Sista Bek & me


I love the women in my life and will cherish them forever. xx



So this is how we did mother's day at our house...


Madison and me!

Madison trying to hide with my arm, is it working!!

Jaimee and me!
 
We get a little bit silly here!



Ewww, Madison always surprises you one way or another, haha!



 
 
Time to finish off the mother's day pressie. Madison needed me to make an extra trip to school because she was home with the croup and was so worried mummy wouldn't get her mother's day secret :( Only trouble is, she gave my secret to Adam because he had gone back to work and daddy needed a mother's day secret. Madison's quote "I love daddy on Mother's Day"! Bless her little cotton socks.
 



Daddy gets the cool love heart picture frame.
 
The modern artist look!




Again with that tormented artist look happening!


Madison painted this for me, yay! She had Mad painted on it and she said it's from Madi, I asked if she likes being called Madi and she said yes! I have always called her Madison, funny how you find out things. Again with the artist look, Bwaahhaa!
 
Jaimee with her creative look happening, not quite sure how to explain it, it's a bit like an Austin Powers look, oh behave :) !


My treasures.

My treasures and Ad's love heart because that's how Madison wanted it! Do you love my bowl Madison finished painting. Jaimee had got the sweet little vintage glass dish and soap roses at the mothers day stall at school. Love those stalls, it's always such fun to see what comes home with the girls.


Awesome art work and I love that my card has skulls on it!!

My card is very cool.

This is very cool, Madison has drawn Scrat and scrattie out of the movie Ice age and she has tried to write Madison and Jaimee but she has Chami. So cool.


Love my girls and another great day, thank you my little darlings for making my mothers day so special.


Steph
x


 
 
 

The Daddy's Birthday


It was the Daddy's Birthday yesterday!

Happy birthday Adam!

It's was a good day. We ventured out in the rain for a nice lunch at the Noosa marina for fish and chips.

 
Mind you it was rather quick as Madison was in fine form and feeling much better after the week of croup! A few in appropriate things but you know, we just go with the flow. You probably don't want details but a little bit icky and a lot funny! Very nice calamari too!

Trying to fit us all in to the photo!
 

The kid is very cheeky, got to watch her as she will give you a little nip every now and then.

 
Being silly with Dad!


Love my sista!


Madison is always the poser, ha!

Madison asleep on the way home and Jaimee holding her hand looking after the little one, so sweet!
 
We took a chance and went to the markets earlier in the morning. Madison is really into the shopping thing now and she wants to go all the time! There were so many dogs, the kid was in heaven. I was so tempted to take photo's of all the dogs and make a little book for her, maybe I'll get brave and ask the owners next time :)

Look what Madison found at the markets, perfect!


Very cool books for madison to draw in.
Love this and had to take a photo, it was sold much to Ad's delight!


India tomorrow, wild turkeys now:)




Snuggles with dad!



 


 Ad got his new j-dub fins for his punt, well he cheated and got them a week ago but he is happy.

One more year till the big 40, damn you are good lookin babe for your age!

Love you Babe, Happy Birthday x


Steph
x

Friday, 10 May 2013

Back to being the FiFo wife again ...

It's that time again, Adam is heading off to work on Sunday. So it is back to being the Fly in Fly out wife. My hubby has been home since the end of January when the 1st stage of the Darwin project was completed. Adam has been a fly in fly out worker now for about 2 years and the swings vary on different projects.


This is Ad in his sexy hi-vis and safety gear, I'm sure the HSE (Health Safety Environment) guys would have been stoked, Bwahahaa! Ad standing in the bucket of the excavator on the Baldur.

It was a bit tricksy at the beginning well pretty bloody tough actually. Especially for Madison, the first six months was hard until the girls got the idea of how it was going to work. It wasn't just hard for the girls but for Ad and I too and is still hard from time to time. Exciting though, this kind of work was very different to what Ad was doing here on the coast.

Ad was working a 6 day week with 12 hour days in a quarry and having one day a week family time. Only problem was he was so fatigued that he would either sleep or surf, not much quality family time there but work is work right. Due to other factors and some very unfortunate circumstances we were at a cross roads and hence here we are living the FIFO lifestyle.

This new kind of life style has opened up a whole new world for us and we do like it, a lot. Adam see's it as though he is only working for half the year then home the other half. Although in saying that, he works damn hard. A 84 hour week with overtime thrown in, 7 days a week for the whole swing, No days off unless there is a cyclone or some other major weather event. Seriously, the boys work hard! We wont talk about the mischief they get up to cause most of the time, I just don't wanna no!!

So here is were I really need to get the technical bits right or it will be off with my head Alice in wonderland!

The first project he was on was over at place called Barrow Island in Western Australia. He was on a 5 week on and 5 week off swing. Adam was operating a 130 tonne triple boom excavator placing 14 tonne x blocks to create a 16 metre break wall. This is actually quite impressive but don't tell him I said that ;)






This is a different machine, a 70 tonne long reach doing slope work. All those x-blocks took a while to place, it's like a big jigsaw having to get them in the right spot.


When that project finished he was then fortunate enough to go to a place called Onslow in W.A. This is where he first met the Baldur and started to work out on the ocean. The Baldur is a non propelled backhoe dredge which is a 550 tonne excavator on a pontoon barge.

Did I get that right babe? Yep, I am on fire with my machine knowledge ...
 
Adam is one of the operators of the excavator. The Baldur was digging a trench for a gas pipe on the ocean floor. This was a 5 and 5 swing too although we had a few extra weeks thrown in there at one stage so he was away for 8. That really sucked!


This is the Baldur and there is Ad's office with the big bucket swinging off the end of it!



The barge in front of the Baldur that is being loaded is a split hopper. It takes 5000 tonne and is 80 metres long. It take the material that's being loaded out to sea and it splits in half to dump the load.

From Onslow it was then up to Darwin were the Baldur was digging a birth pocket for a gas plant in the harbour. This was a good roster it was 4 weeks on and 4 weeks home. The second stage of this project will start around Christmas time. So he has been a very busy boy up until the end of this project.


This is in Darwin and that is Ad's brother Russ if you can see him, it's a bit of a where's wally pic :) The boys are changing out a ram cylinder on top of the boom of the excavator. 

It is a start of a new project and this time the destination is Mumbai, India. Exciting right and I am bit jealous but so good for Adam, it's very cool that Ad get's to travel with his work. 

It has been a long time having the boy here at home with us. 15 weeks in fact, well there was a week that he went back up to Darwin for work, it was a bit of a mudfest and mozzie ridden adventure but I'll post about that another time cause there are some cool photo's and video footage.

The girls and I have gotten very comfortable and use to having him home now and I see tricky times ahead. This past week I have had that tight feeling in the pit of my stomach and a hint of, oh shit, it's just us girls again running through my mind. Come Sunday morning I will have two very teary girls and most likely one teary mum! Ad will leave at 5.00 am and it's going to be a really long day of travel for him.

It's kinda funny Ad is doing fifo work as he actually hates to fly in aeroplanes. The crazy man loves to watch all of those air crash investigator shows too, what a nut!! He will jump out of them, planes that it is, he just doesn't like to be on them with out a parachute, haha.

India, I've got to say, I think will be amazing and an eye opener. Ad is under strict instructions for lots of photos and video too. He has his survival pack of malaria tablets, electrolytes, Imodium, and the tablets to stop the throwing up. I am a little worried about the food thing, if I make a mild curry he sweats under his eyes, haha! They have a cook on board so it shall be interesting times ahead.

Good luck babe we are going to miss you like crazy but your going to have an amazing time even if you have to work too.

Maybe I should be saying good luck to India as they seriously don't know what there in for with the Boskalis crew, behave boys!!


Steph

x

Wednesday, 8 May 2013

A Very Beary Sleepover ...


Madison had a friend come and stay for a sleepover last week. Not your average sleepover granted but still a sleepover in Madison's books. The funny old fellow called Humphrey lives on Madison's school bus. He sits up the front of the bus to make sure all is well and the kids are all happy!


He is quite a large Bear and Madison is happy!






He must be heavy too! 


Greg is Madison's bus driver, he is always cheery and likes to make the kids laugh and Cheryl is the bus aid. Cheryl is very kind and nurturing she also
shares Humphreys job in making sure the kids are all ok and happy as well as helping them on and off the bus.

They are our very important bus friends and Adam and I appreciate them very much. It's a big task that they do, getting our baby girl to school safe & sound and then home again. I think a person must have to have that little bit of extra something to do the job they do, I'd imagine it's not easy being the staff on a special needs school bus. You can tell they enjoy it though and it put's our minds at easy knowing our girl is being looked after with such care.

Madison has a very long school day, well the whole week actually. I get her up at 6.00am to be on the bus at 7.10am. I think she gets to school just after 8.30am then leave school from 2.45 pm to home at 3.50pm. Long day, hey! Thanks god for the little tv (dvd player).

You probably wonder why I just don't drive her. Well that is a tricky thing. For a start she wont get out of the car at school with out a fight, as in a physical one, because she never wants to go to school. I am unable to go to school
functions because as soon as she see's me we are going home! I still go of course but I know I will have a little friend with me for the car ride home.

Madison also likes to play chicken with cars and you have to park on a main road to get into the school. She does have a little awareness of danger but not all danger and doesn't realise that if one of those big fast moving cars hits her it's all over red rover. The girl is a runner and she is fast, I mean really fast. You blink and you've missed her, she is that quick. Adam always thinks he could catch her but I say not a chance honey bun, it's really not worth the risk. So someone is always hanging onto her when we leave the house or go anywhere.

I like that Madison can catch the bus and is able to have that little bit of independence, it is one of many life skills she will need. Being able to detach herself from her mummy and also knowing how to get on a bus, knowing the appropriate behaviour to use, being tolerant of others, using her words to communicate her wants and needs. There is a lot more to catching a bus than many of us think.

Greg and Cheryl assure me she is happy on the bus. She will often have a snooze on the way home and she has her movies to watch. I guess until I see real signs of distress we will keep getting the bus.

We have our morning routine that we do stick to every single day and god forbid if something doesn't go to schedule. Lets just say thing's get slowed right down and there is a lot of noise. Then the race is on!

On a good day she will get up have a drink watch tv for about 5 to 10 mins then into the big shower in our bedroom for about 20 mins, she always looks like a drowned rat because she wont let me brush her hair, haha. I do have to dry her and dress her, there are some skills we are still working on.

Ad is always on at me about the water bill but I figure what ever makes her happy and me de-frazzled in the morning, it's a good thing! Then the all important computer time. If she misses this, it's all over, we may as well all go back to bed and wake up the next day!! Some days I might get her to have a little bit of Gf/Df toast or she just wont eat. Then we have got to pick out the movie for the bus if we don't do this well in advance the poor bus waits. Sorry Greg and Cheryl :)

So when it came time to try and get Humphrey back on the bus I did have a slight feeling of Panic!! I thought for sure this was going to be disastrous. I thought she was going to want to keep him for ever like she wants to keep every puppy dog we go past in the street. My chest had a rather tight feeling as I was trying to work out every scenario in my head as to how this bear thing was going to go down.

It was a great sleepover though, they watch youtube together, ate there dinner, watched some movies, played with all of her toys and he did have to sleep on the floor next to her bed but he's a bear, so that was ok. Perfect friend for Madison, he did everything she wanted him to do and Humphrey doesn't talk so you cant get much better than that, haha!

I was so surprised when there was absolutely no kafuffle getting on the bus. OMG someone was definitely watching over me on this day, thanks Grandad, I'm sure you had something to do with it! We got him, Humphrey back up into his seat, Cheryl strapped him in and off they went. Bloody Awesome!!


Madison's last little chat before they get on the bus, too cute!




 

Thanks Humphrey for being such a good bear!


 



Steph

x

Tuesday, 7 May 2013

Adventures at the Op Shop ...

 
So on the weekend I felt we needed to get out and about, do something, together, anything!! Jaimee had been couped up all week, home from school with a nasty throat virus thing, yik! Madison would have a better weekend if we can break it up a bit with some kind of outing and Ad is always up for anything.

We hadn't been for ages so we headed off to one of the Op shops on the coast. I love going op shopping and it's something that interests everyone in our little family. You will always find something out of the ordinary and a bit exciting at an Op shop. Yes there may be a fair bit of crap too but that's when I have to put on my sorting brain and decipher, do I really need that!!



The big charity shop at Kunda Park.


You see I am trying to change an old habit. I am from a long line of hoarders, my mum is going to kill me, but it's true, hahaha, she really is going to kill me. Don't worry mum, we haven't put you on a reality TV show yet so you must be pretty safe, so far :) I'm trying to break the cycle, my little sis too, although Bek is very good at getting rid of stuff already, huh, maybe she has already fixed 
her habit! 

My habit is nothing like what you see on those TV shows, mum or nan's either. Although the old ducks are from an era of the depression so it is understandable that they would keep and reuse what they have. Which is a really good thing in this day and age.

It only becomes a problem I think when you don't get rid of things and keep adding to the pile of stuff. To mum's credit she did recently have a massive sort out of her worldly possessions and was very pro active in the throwing out and giving away of items, so proud. So if she can do it I must be able to too!! There is hope yet. Adam will be so pleased, bwahhaa!!

I have had a massive pile of stuff in the middle of our garage for awhile now and was going to have a garage sale, great idea but in my to hard basket. So to Ad's dismay I actually re-used some of the furniture, although I did tell him that I had just saved him lots of dollars because I wouldn't have to buy new stuff, so he was happy again then. I boxed up a lot of things and gave to the girls schools, lots of bits to charity and of course off loaded a bit to Bek, Hehe!

I am all about recycling, up-cycling and re-using and saving the dollars where ever we can these days. I have been keeping track of what we spend over that last few months and it does come as a real shock as to how much gets wasted. That is a story for another time though!!

In that pile of stuff was an old desk I had actually had when I was about 15 years old. Jaimee has had it in the past but then she wanted an upgrade to something a bit more modern being in high school now. We have this great big window looking out into the backyard and we have nature reserve behind our home. Perfect spot for me to sit and write on my blog. So I will be busy up-cycling my old desk in the next few weeks but I am going to need something to go with the desk.

So I was on the hunt for a chair, something old school, a bit vintage. I guess I did have an ulterior motive behind going on our Op shop outing! It was a good outing too, haha.

Madison found something cool and her size, she had fun for ages with the pool table. See the bowling balls behind her, she must have picked up about 3 or 4 of them. Jaimee was juggling the bowling balls there at one stage trying to prevent Madison from dropping them on her little toes.

She is a good big sister and kept putting the balls back on the shelf as fast as Madison was getting them off the shelf! Lots of giggling go on from Madison as she thought it was a great game, while Jaimee was looking at me to be saved. Poor kid!! There was also a dart board there which was fun but a little bit too intense, we moved on pretty fast after the darts.
 
 
 
 

Ad is always on the look out for golf bits and books.
Jaimee was checking out the roller blades and ice skates.

 

 
Lookie, lookie what I found, Awesome!!!




Madison loves looking at all the toys and often jags something cool. Awesome find, the hippo off Madagascar.




 
 
Adam trying to keep up with Madison
 
 

 
 
Perfect hiding place, under a petticoat. 
 
 


Jaimee found were the jewels where pretty quick.




Indiana Jones, I found your hat, were are you!!
 
 



 
I'll just put it there on that big dolls face!! I see something else I like.




Thought these were cool, my sis fishes for these and I though my friend Denise would appreciate them too. 


 
See this little square retro table, I would have brought that home with me if Adam wasn't with us, damn! Those canisters on the other table are so gorgeous I could have had them too. See, I need my thinking brain cause I run into trouble fairly often, I get too swoony over vintage things. 




Love these old suitcases, mum use to have one like that green one. We use to catch the train when I was little to Gloucester to visit Nanna & Grandad with it.
Love the camping table too. 




Look what came home to live with us! I found my new chair, to be fair I had my birthday dollars from Bek, so Happy Birthday to me again.
Love it so so much. 

 


We had a fun afternoon out, I think we were there for an hour or so. Madison loves the op shops and when we got home she wanted to go again. Me too but Ad can only handle one shop at a time, haha!

Madison was awesome while we were out, no dramas, no meltdowns, no banging things, no throwing stuff. It was a very cruisey afternoon. Which makes it just that little bit easier to get out the door next time for a family outing.

Don't you just love the chair, I wonder what it's history is, who had it, we're they someone famous or important. Love the endless possibilities and the romance of an old fashion story that could go with this chair.

So happy, it doesn't take much, just a day like this!


Steph
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